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MARRIAGE ADVICE

 

Silent treatment vs Self-Soothing

How do you and your spouse communicate when one of you is hurt and angry? Do you play with mind...
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Couple Problem: Contradicting financial goals

Mark and Lisa, a young couple married for two months, came to me for counseling. They couldn't seem to find...
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BF-GF vs Hubby-Wifey

I stumbled upon a question in Girltalk about the difference in the relationship between dating couples and married couples. What...
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Confiding to your spouse

Two weeks ago, I took a projective test to fulfill one of our requirements in my graduate course work. In...
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“How can I help my husband change his ways?”

I need an advice. I am married for more than three years. My husband has a hobby of lying even...
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“My dream career or my husband?”

I am married for more than 10 yrs to a very loving husband. I've been working in a prestigious company....
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“Should I pursue our wedding even if I feel so alone in our relationship?”

“I am with my current partner for 12years, we’re about to get married in less than 2months, we have a...
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Are You a Sweet Wife?

Ask my husband if I'm a sweet wife and I'm pretty sure he'll just laugh at your question. That's one...
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Admire your man, it’s good for your marriage

Do you want your man to shower you with affection? Then shower him with admiration! According to His Needs Her...
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Lucy Torres-Gomez Shares 11 Lessons on Love, Men, and Marriage

I so love this article! So full of simple wisdom and truth! Reposting this on this blog. =) _________________________________________________________________ It...
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WELL-BEING

 

Depressed Mothers: Reasons of Depression and Loneliness

At different points of my life as a mother, I experience bouts of depressive symptoms. There are times when I...
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When loved ones disappoint us

People will disappoint me, just as I will disappoint them. But I'm not going to talk about my weaknesses. Instead...
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Introverts: How to care and love yourself ?

"Love yourself first." Some women are stumped when they receive this kind of advice. It sounds like alien which they've...
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Feeling Depressed? Here are Signs of Depression

Most people are aware of how depression feels like. Usually, when you feel depressed you feel down, empty, fatigued,and disinterested...
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“Mommy wants some Me-time”

As an introvert, particularly INFJ, I am badly in need of some me-time. Me-time is somewhat like having a down-time....
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3 Ways to Pray without Talking

I grew up believing that I can only pray through the use of words. That's why it's easy for me...
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Too Controlling or too submissive – what’s your locus of control?

Are you the master of your destiny or the follower of your life's authorities? Do you feel you are in...
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You don’t get to choose your friends

Last week I heard a talk about the importance of choosing your friends wisely and selecting the people you always...
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Lacking in Assertiveness

Several months ago, I have observed that I have inner aggression. It was difficult to admit because it scared me....
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Creating My Own Success Yardstick and Remembering It

How do you measure your own success? Success means different to every individual. And by success, I mean the accomplishment...
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